I think that kids and young people who grow up in the spotlight experience a stunt in their growth. As a result, that stuck in the headspace, era, time frame, mindset and frame of mind that disconnects them from the maturity that’s needed to grow and develop. Especially if money, influence, status or beauty is involved. Look at child ‘stars’ or actors
I personally don’t see anything wrong with to people who are of legal dating regardless of the age differences. Relationship offer various things/benefits for the people that are in them. For the record and I am not talking at all about sex or money.
From my observation I feel that our society is isolated unnecessarily out of habit and social engineering. We also tend to be very distracted overall which causes us to neglect relationships and seek more individualized ways of connecting that are often superficial and inauthentic.